On becoming Unfucked...

You don’t start out this way… unfucked. You have to earn it, just like the t-shirt… it can’t be bought. And getting there isn’t really the hard part… staying there is.

So what is “unfucked”, the unfucked mind, mindset, goals, life long pursuit? Fucking show up for yourself. Period. In every fucking way. Be on time for shit. Willingly outwork yourself daily. Respect yourself enough to stay humble in victory and defeat. Learn from your mistakes and swear to never let the same one happen twice. Be diligent in your education of the self… look into that mirror and see through the bullshit that likes to surface. Be healthy… in mind, body, spirit. Know that you only get one shot at this… don’t wait for your life to happen… fucking go get it! Be strong. Be really fucking strong. Find it. Not because you want the shirt or the pat on the back, or recognition from anyone… but because it matters in this life, this world, to be strong. There are all kinds of strong, and some will say, “Well, strength is relevant”… Bullshit. Strength comes from stepping into or being thrust into the goddamned abyss, and surviving… because you have to… then going back, because that’s where real fucking growth and exceptional things happen. Then… you are ready to take that education and apply it in your everything, everyday, every moment…. forever. You’ll stumble, trip, fall on your fucking head. Over and over and over…. but… What will you do? Fear, shame, guilt… all bullshit… will tell you “You did ok”, “You’ll get it next time”, “That was good enough”… nope. You get ONE SHOT. You fuck it up, see it, feel it, let it fucking hurt in all ways… then fix it, right then and there…GET STRONG, STAY HUMBLE, BE UNFUCKED.